Well, last night I went out. Man it feels like I haven't been out in forever. $15! Daaayyyymm. I'm going to have to go out earlier. Well, suprisingly, I didn't have any nervousness at all. I walked in and just started talking to the bartender. She was really chill. She told me about the good places to go in Seattle. That was nice.
Looking back I don't remember how many sets I opened up. It must of been at least 7. I got a bitch shield once but it didn't effect me. I don't know why but people, well girls anyway, that give negativity doesn't bother me at all. I have got to learn to hit mixed sets. It's a missed opportunity.
Pretty much the big things that I've learned are that I think I have a strong frame. Once a girl asked me "Why are you in an 18+ club if you're 21?" I just looked her in the eyes and answered "Because THIS is the place to be." Also, to just open people. It's funny but girls are more open to a conversation but more guys just try to jump on the back of them. Weird how that works.
Good points....My voice was pretty good actually. Looking back my body language was damn good.
Sticking points......I gotta plow. I am going to need way more practice because I want to be able to pump buying temperature as I plow. Also I didn't close anything so I gotta work toward that as well.
My standard convos
Hey, how are you guys tonight? I'm Adrian
I'm bla bla bla
Cool, I just moved here from California and my roommates don't like to go out to clubs. So tonight I was like "I am going OUT".
some of the sets giggled
I'm trying to find the "cool" places to go. Know of any?
Yea, you should try bla bla bla
I did venue change a two set to dance. They "had to go to the bathroom" though. So I think I was grinding too much on the cute friend. Had instant rapport with this hot girl but couldn't really take it where I wanted to. Got along great with the bartender. Some serious big girl IOIs but I don't know if she was just being nice. I'll see her again though. Got a couple good shit tests from this one girl but they didn't even bug me. I think I had visual attraction from her. Right now, the only thing that is holding me back are the conversation skills. It feels like that anyway.
Alright with no closes I've got plenty to work on. I think I'll watch Foundations on the hook point. I need to work on this a lot more.
Weird how this works also but the more social girls were definitely a LOT easier to talk to for me.
Not really going to worry about verbal escalation at this point. I feel like I'm building a house from the ground up but at least it will be a cool house.
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